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Homecoming ...
On
a clear, cool, day in October 1945 a train pulled into the
Canadian National Railway Station in Sherbrooke, Quebec, and my
Dad stepped onto the platform. Though I hadn't seen him in about
five years I knew him. Some things you just don't forget. There
to greet him were my Mother, Beryl, my sister Cynthia, and me.
Dad's Mother, Father his sister and a whole group of friends
were there also. It was an indescribably great day.
Accolades and
Acknowledgments
Everyone who undertakes to write anything
cannot do it alone. I, more than most, needed the support and
help of my family, friends and other people who made my writings
possible. I want to thank them here for their generous gift of
time, energy and input. They are ...
My Dad. With the benefit of hindsight
I realize he led the life of a gentle man who set an example for
others to follow. Clippings and diaries supplied most of what
has been written here.
My Mother who for 4 years constantly worried about Dad.
The ring of the doorbell just after Christmas when the Canadian
National Telegraphs boy handed her a Telegram announcing the
fall of Hong Kong along with information that there was no
information about my Dads wellbeing. Later another ring of the
doorbell and the Canadian National Telegraphs message giving the
good news that Dad was alive. Nothing more. I cannot imagine the
terrible stress she lived with. She, along with my Grandmother,
raised my sister and me. She gave generously of her time to the
war effort through The Red Cross, and other organizations while
never failing in her duties as a loving mother. She was a great
mother. I miss her too.
My wife, Darlene. Her patience with me during the years
it critiques, her editing skills, her way of looking at things
helped me to put this too many ways to list here.
My daughter, Pamela Parker. Her computer skills were an
enormous help, and her kids will now know their Grandpa Parker.
My son, Mark Parker. I felt I should put the tribute to
my Dad and to all those with whom he endured so much , so that
he could understand what his Grandpa went through as a man, a
husband and a father, and what I had to go through as his son.
Tony Banham. Tony is, in my estimation, one of the
outstanding authorities on the Battle of Hong Kong. He provided
help when help was most needed, and guidance when I sometimes
went astray. Any errors are all mine and were made because I
didn't always listen to him.. His web site is at
http://www.hongkongwardiary.com , a truly
worthwhile site to visit.
Phil Dodderidge. Another source of information which was
invaluable. He gave me some personal insight into my Dad's
character. He was my Dad's "Radar" from M.A.S.H. (the TV show).
Carol Hadley, who also provided help as needed.
http://www.hkvca.ca
Claire Hachey. Links to her sites have
made this site much better. Her generous support has been
exceptional.
What more can I say to all of them than ... thank you.
Ronald Parker, October
25, 2001
Technically
there were no American combatants during the battle for Hong
Kong, but they played a huge role in building and maintaining
morale with their bombing runs which lifted the spirits of the
prisoners even though it endangered their lives.
The message inherent in this tribute is
spelled out in: "The Other Side of Time, a Combat Surgeon in
World War II", a history, "What we were and what we did, at our
best, and what happened around us, is slipping out of knowledge.
That's a pity. Please, young people, listen to us before we
leave."
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